Read: Psalm 73
Think: Sometimes one of the most important things we can do when someone has failed us is to put ourselves in their shoes… Look at things from their point and through the lens of their life story. It doesn’t excuse bad behavior or hurtful actions, but it can give us at least a little insight into why that person operates the way they do. Then when it comes time to seek resolution, you can have the opportunity to sympathize with the other person and maybe even extend a little grace.
But often its feelings that can be the stumbling block to healing rifts… Have you noticed that feelings are not always true or logical? In fact, resentment and hurt makes us act and think in unreasonable ways sometimes. David admitted, "When my thoughts were bitter and my feelings were hurt, I was as stupid as an animal" (Psalm 73:21-22 TEV). We all can act a little “beastly” when we’re hurt.
But God directs us to respond in a different spirit… the Bible says “A man's wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense” (Prov. 19:11 NIV). It’s really difficult and a sacrifice to patiently absorb the anger of others, especially if it's unfounded or misplaced. BUT remember, this is exactly what Jesus did for each of us. He endured groundless, hateful anger in order to save us. For even Christ did not please himself but, as it is written: “The insults of those who insult you have fallen on me.” (Romans 15:3).
Do: Follow the example of Jesus Himself who stopped at nothing to bring restoration and healing to His people.
Pray: Jesus, thank you for what you endured in order to bring us to a full and restored relationship with the Father. You were failed by those closest to you, and Lord even by me if I’m honest. Forgive me and help me to act in honesty and with Godly attitudes in all my relationships but especially those that are difficult right now. Amen.
The eDevotional is written each week by a team of volunteers from Timberlake Church.